“It is okay to be confused but don’t stay in the confused state for long. Get up & get moving after awhile” said my dear old friend of 13 years, Mide. — Life happens to every one of us, and most times, when it does, we are often not prepared for it. We get confused and have no clear direction of what to do next. We may feel as if we are trapped in an endless, murky web of uncertainty if we…